During our first few weeks here, Brenna and I ventured out to Malleny Gardens which is just a mile from our house. We didn't know it at the time, but our timing was perfect since everything was in full bloom and we got to see the gardens in it's full majesty.
Monday, June 24, 2019
Monday, June 17, 2019
Edinburgh Zoo
Our first outing was to the Edinburgh Zoo. The zoo is built on a hillside, so we wound our way uphill through exhibits until we reach a breathtaking view of the city. While the zoo itself wasn't comparable to other zoos we've visit, they did have giant pandas, which is our first time to every have the privilege of viewing them.
Friday, June 14, 2019
Home Sweet Home the British Version
After a long and agonizing 6 months, Brenna finished 6th grade and we finally made the final transition of our move to Scotland where we joined Jacob. Life in Britain is starkly different than the life we knew in Texas. When we moved to Canada things were different, of course, but it was more of a quirky new way of doing the same old things. That is not the case here. Even the simplest of tasks seem to be done in a completely different manner. Laundry, grocery shopping, and driving (oh my, driving!) have all become much more complicated. Because my unit is a washer/dryer combo (as in, it washes and drys in the same tub, not separately) it takes on average 6 hours to complete one load of laundry. I walk a lot or take the bus. I generally only drive to and from Brenna’s school. The school is less than five miles from our house, yet it takes me an hour round trip every morning for drop off and usually longer every afternoon for pick-up. The streets are extremely narrow and there are lots of hills and curves. Bicycles and bus stops use the same lanes as motor vehicles, and pedestrians seem to be darting across streets everywhere! Since the average speed is 30 mph it takes forever to go only a short distance and then when you’ve reached your destination, there’s no where to park, because in a old city like Edinburgh space comes at premium and no one is willing to waste it on a parking lot. Fortunately, there’s a bus stop just a few steps from our house. Buses are abundant and frequent and change for “bus money” has become a priority.
Food has been another issue in this relocation. I certainly can’t complain about the classic British dishes served up here. The fish and chips are delicious and I’ve even managed to fit some haggis into my culinary adventures, although I could do without baked beans and black pudding on my breakfast plate. But I miss Chick-fil-A, Popeye’s, and TexMex! The comfort foods we love are nowhere to be found and neither are the ingredients. I desperately miss Rotel tomatoes and Colby jack cheese and just this week a store clerk actually laughed at me when I asked him where to find the cornmeal. What’s Grandmaw’s chicken pie without cornbread!
Communicating has proved challenging at times. Just for me really, because Jacob and Brenna seem to get along just fine. I have a much thinker accent than either of them and unfortunately my southern English does not always interpret well here. Brenna is constantly stepping in for me at checkout stands and restaurants to relay my requests. On the flip side, the Scottish accents can be very thick and there’s also Gaelic words mixed in. Couple that with all the British slang phrases that I don’t understand and I frequently find myself wondering if we really are all speaking the same language!
We live in a village just outside the city center. We were very fortunate and found a peaceful little place on the Water of Leith (we’d say river) that backs up to the Pentland Hills. The house is named The Aspect. It's such a lovely location. The house is actually below the street, so if you're looking from street level you'll only see a small parking area for our cars. You take a few steps down to our front door. Our little hill gives isolation and serenity from the busy street above. Every morning I wake up to the view of fluffy sheep grazing over rolling hills of green pastures. Our garden (or backyard, as we would call it) is filled with beautiful blooming flowers and bushes. Since I don't have a green thumb, I hope they survive our stay here.
While there's clearly been lots of changes, it's been an amazing experience so far. Castles are plentiful and the landscape is beautiful. We've got lots of travel planned and Brenna is excited to start school.
Saturday, June 8, 2019
Friday, June 7, 2019
Challenge Soccer
By far the majority of our time in Houston was spent on the soccer field. Within just two weeks of moving into the house we joined Challenge Soccer Club. Challenge is one of a select few competitive girls soccer clubs in Texas. The program starts with a youth academy that feeds into league play through U18. It's a full year club designed to develop girls for college level play. More than 85% of last years graduating Challenge seniors were recruited for college soccer from 25 different universities. We weren't going into Challenge with the idea of putting Brenna on a path for professional soccer, but she was set that this was the league she wanted to play for.
Things progressed quickly once we joined. After playing the 2017 fall season in youth academy, she was bumped up to a U11 league team for the 2018 spring season. Then in May we took part in annual tryouts and were excited to hear that Brenna was selected to play up on the U13 team (totally skipped U12...) We had our concerns, as she was only 10 at the time and would be competing against 11-13 year olds. Also, U13 is the first official year of true FIFA regulation style soccer; meaning size 5 ball, 11v11, and 100x60 yards fields. For Brenna that meant learning to play a new position (verses previous 9v9 format) and a much larger field requiring more ground to cover. After talking with her coaches, they assured us that she was ready to compete, so we joined Challenge 06 Red East.
We started with three weeks of 4-day/week preseason training in July, giving up our last few weeks of summer. Once preseason was complete we practiced three days a week for two hours each session with games on Saturdays and Sundays and tournaments all over southeast Texas. We played in the pouring rain, the freezing cold, and the scorching heat. And practice was never cancelled because of rain. They'd just move it to the parking lot.
All the girls had to complete fitness testing for rankings. The girls took part in timed agility tests, the 25 yard dash, vertical jump, and the beep test for endurance. The data was then used to rank the results of the entire club based on age. We had to complete neurocognitive testing to provide baseline data for concussion management. As I sat in the hospital waiting for our appointment I wondered how good of a parent I was if I was actively planning for my child to incur a concussion! The club also provided nutritional seminars on healthy eating for athletes.
The coaches were tough, and not always nice. During practices, if someone made a mistake the whole team had to stop, drop, and do push-ups. There was lots of colorful commentary from the coaches on the sidelines during practices and games. Some of my favorite are:
How many lefts do you have?
Can you see the ball? Do I need to get you glasses?
I need you to make a decision faster than my grandma!
I'm going to put posters up that say "Have you seen this left foot?" on every tree in the park.
Are you dead? You're moving like a zombie! Pick up the pace!
You look like the Grinch that Stole Christmas! Stop tip-toeing through the ladder!
You have to talk to each other on the field! I know you can because you sound like a bunch of chickens during practice!
Needless to say, this club is not for the faint of heart. It was brutal at times, but Brenna never backed down. There were even moments we threatened to pull her out and she fought back to stay. The program has taught her about team work and communication and how hard work and dedication pays off in skill and knowledge. I'm so proud of the effort and determination she's put into this.
As the year progressed, so did their level of play. Unfortunately, I didn't take a single picture or video throughout the entire year. The game was so fast that I didn't want to try to keep up with any of it through a lens. I didn't want to miss a second of playing time. Thankfully, another mom sacrificed herself for the team and photographed a couple of the games and tournaments.
It was a great year with Challenge Soccer Club and a time that I know Brenna will remember for a lifetime.
Things progressed quickly once we joined. After playing the 2017 fall season in youth academy, she was bumped up to a U11 league team for the 2018 spring season. Then in May we took part in annual tryouts and were excited to hear that Brenna was selected to play up on the U13 team (totally skipped U12...) We had our concerns, as she was only 10 at the time and would be competing against 11-13 year olds. Also, U13 is the first official year of true FIFA regulation style soccer; meaning size 5 ball, 11v11, and 100x60 yards fields. For Brenna that meant learning to play a new position (verses previous 9v9 format) and a much larger field requiring more ground to cover. After talking with her coaches, they assured us that she was ready to compete, so we joined Challenge 06 Red East.
We started with three weeks of 4-day/week preseason training in July, giving up our last few weeks of summer. Once preseason was complete we practiced three days a week for two hours each session with games on Saturdays and Sundays and tournaments all over southeast Texas. We played in the pouring rain, the freezing cold, and the scorching heat. And practice was never cancelled because of rain. They'd just move it to the parking lot.
All the girls had to complete fitness testing for rankings. The girls took part in timed agility tests, the 25 yard dash, vertical jump, and the beep test for endurance. The data was then used to rank the results of the entire club based on age. We had to complete neurocognitive testing to provide baseline data for concussion management. As I sat in the hospital waiting for our appointment I wondered how good of a parent I was if I was actively planning for my child to incur a concussion! The club also provided nutritional seminars on healthy eating for athletes.
The coaches were tough, and not always nice. During practices, if someone made a mistake the whole team had to stop, drop, and do push-ups. There was lots of colorful commentary from the coaches on the sidelines during practices and games. Some of my favorite are:
How many lefts do you have?
Can you see the ball? Do I need to get you glasses?
I need you to make a decision faster than my grandma!
I'm going to put posters up that say "Have you seen this left foot?" on every tree in the park.
Are you dead? You're moving like a zombie! Pick up the pace!
You look like the Grinch that Stole Christmas! Stop tip-toeing through the ladder!
You have to talk to each other on the field! I know you can because you sound like a bunch of chickens during practice!
Needless to say, this club is not for the faint of heart. It was brutal at times, but Brenna never backed down. There were even moments we threatened to pull her out and she fought back to stay. The program has taught her about team work and communication and how hard work and dedication pays off in skill and knowledge. I'm so proud of the effort and determination she's put into this.
As the year progressed, so did their level of play. Unfortunately, I didn't take a single picture or video throughout the entire year. The game was so fast that I didn't want to try to keep up with any of it through a lens. I didn't want to miss a second of playing time. Thankfully, another mom sacrificed herself for the team and photographed a couple of the games and tournaments.
It was a great year with Challenge Soccer Club and a time that I know Brenna will remember for a lifetime.

Monday, June 3, 2019
6th Grade at West Lake Middle School
Brenna's sixth grade and first year of middle school was a big transition for both Brenna and me. Brenna was super excited at her first chance to have some control over her class selection and to move throughout the school from class to class without supervision. It was my first year to step away just a little and give her some independence. I've always played a very active roll in all of Brenna's classes throughout her primary years. So much so, that I still remain friends with several of her past teachers. I was always there for every school activity, field trip, and presentation. Now seemed like the right time to let her maneuver through this new school and new way of learning on her own. She met the challenge with enthusiasm! She joined choir as her fine arts selection and it was the best and funniest choir that she's ever been a part. Her choir teacher was fantastic. She also selected Leadership Development, Drama, and Computer Technologies for her other electives. She also picked up all advance placements classes for her core subjects of Math, Science, English, and World Cultures. Her after school activities were committed to soccer and choir, but she also decided to join the Library Club and dedicated her early mornings before school started as a library manager. I was a little concerned that she may be taking on too much for her first year as a middle schooler, but somehow she balanced everything and was going strong. It helped that she plugged into a really great group of girls that were just as active as she was. The crew stuck together throughout the school year and made the most out of their opportunities for fun, from volunteering together at the school's Christmas Celebration, to water park choir field trips, and two school dances.
First Day of 6th Grade
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